I feel frustrated, depressed, and pessimistic about the use of aggressiveness is assertiveness because I am needing choice/autonomy/to pursue big things like college from my own volition.

marie: you put this (pineapple) on the mold.
me: your worried about the mold.
marie: no I told you...
me: you wold like me to be aware of the danger of the mold.
marie: no I already told you a million times.
me: you would like me to aknowledge that you already told me about the dangers
of the mold.